Welcome to "Healing Out Loud"

If you’re here because you want to understand what really happened, this is where it begins.

About Healing Out Loud

Healing Out Loud is more than a reflection. More so, to reclaim voice, and motherhood after surviving the unthinkable behind closed doors.

For years, I lived in a marriage built on shifting ground. What began with love and hope slowly gave way to infidelity, financial sabotage, and psychological warfare that fractured the foundation of our family. I was constantly sifting through lies, questioning what was real, all while trying to protect my children and hold everything together.

But I wasn’t blind. I kept records. I documented quietly, storing receipts, screenshots, emails, and even a hidden burner phone or two. I never imagined I’d need them to prove reality.

I was forced to defend what should have never needed defending: my love, my role, and my truth.

We’re in a more stable place now, but the damage runs deep. Rebuilding will take time, and none of it can be rushed.

This blog is part memoir, part lifeline. It's where I continue the battle to save their souls, to preserve the reality of who we were before everything shattered, and to protect the light in them from being buried by lies.

If you’ve ever been silenced, disbelieved, or made to feel invisible in your own family… you are not alone.

This is my healing. Out loud.
And if you’re here, maybe it’s part of yours, too.

This is my personal account and reflection.